the one you love, or the one who loves you??

for such a very long tym... people are still having a hard tym to answer such a question..

lagi nalng.."ung mahal ko!" or madalas.. "xempre dun nako sa nagmamahal saken"

actually i myself doesnt know who to choose.. but i think ill go to the person i love.. its because of the fact that i dont want to take someone for granted.. seriously.. i dont want anyone getting hurt because i made the wrong decision.. i dont want to hurt someone so badly.. and yes i dont want them to feel some pain that cant just go away... id rather be the one to be hurt than get someone to feel the same way..

i believe that once we liked a person,, we really arent far from stalkers! haha.. i myself know that once i like someone,, i look at the persons friendster alot,, get infos and yes!! try to be always in touch by any possible means.. and as much as possible, i want to learn every simple detail about that certain person... not that far from saying that I KNOW the PERSON i lyk very well.... hahaha,... and i will try to know the person very well...

the opposite goes for the person you happen to just know that lyks you.. ofcourse,, being so OVERCONFIDENT that you already pleases him or her,, you try to go so natural.. no extraordinary thingy.. just plain simple.. but more self conscious... so selfish.. and in the end,, it all goes so one sided... and i dont want myself ending up in such.. *sigh*

but one cannot tell.. that i believe so.. since time goes by and nothing is permanent..

we know love is quite unpredictable.. somehow inconsistent.. full of changes, trials..

and sometimes, its inconsistencies makes the person you love and the person who loves you falls to be same person.... unexpectedly....

~fritzie inspired! haha bida ka chi!